What Happened to My Daddy?
About Parental Alienation
Acoustic style Vocal Band, Wedding Band
See new YouTube video for Daddy added this week.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1p6MJcplsAw&feature=youtube_gdata
Story behind the song
Personal experience with an alienating parent and the courts with hope of reintegration with the adult child.
Lyrics
Old enough now, once the apple of his eye
What happened to my daddy… whose alibi?
Mom kept him away with the attorney and lies
Taught manipulation and to no great surprise
To her winning the war meant cutting our ties
And turning her children into Nazi Youth spies
Where are you daddy? Daddy!
A charade, taken hostage, replaced yet alive
I played an accomplice, just to survive
Mom taught me to hate him in sick subtle ways
It left me confused, so sad, yet amazed
That I was so blind, brainwashed and taken
Her jealous self-loathing left my father forsaken
It was all too easy; it was destroyed
The God given bond we once enjoyed
Alienation or whatever you call it
Severed my dad to just a limb with a wallet
Replaced my daddy…daddy!
All made official, bias condoned
I’m just a pawn, a pawn to be owned
It’s still not clear, without a clue
In control of the lies in the best interest of who?
Father’s forgotten, swept under the carpet
Stuck in the mud, bones in the tar pit
I was forgiven but I never came
Now the wedge driven, nothing’s the same
No one comes to the father except through the court
Knock and be sent away from crime’s cohort
Daddy!
Too small to save you, can I ever forgive?
Myself, the part of us that failed to live
So tragic, daddy…
Little girl, you’re not thinking clearly,
(I can’t stop thinking of you) don’t treat me this way
Not knowing who you’re hurting, (But I’m hurting too)
don’t be lead astray, maybe someday…
(And it’s tearing my heart in two)
But it’s already dark outside,
Reaching out as I’m losing my mind
I’m not out of your reach as your losing your mind
(Taking sides, a game of seek and hide,)
(Don’t wait too long, it’s where you belong)
So hear me, be near me, come back to me
Daddy, daddy… Come back to me
